You insinuated very heavily. I was just playing your game.
Yes and no.
My larger point is this: Manny may have been a jerk six years ago but he seems to have turn the corner, or at least he says he has. He's apologized to the McCormack (who has accepted his apology), he apologized to Boston as a whole and the one guy who attempted to kick his ass out of Boston, at least three times, has hired him to work as a minor league coach, mentoring the potential young stars of his new organization. Two major players in the Manny-as-an-asshole mix, who have much bigger stakes than you or WenZink, accepted his apologies. Why are you still hung up on hating a man you don't know, who has brought joy to your life through the things he did on the field?
The argument that you don't understand (actually, you do understand this--or you should, it's pretty simple) is that off the field, athletes are probably not "nice" people. The same with politicians, actors, other less famous people that you may not know. But the last four words in that sentence are key, "you may not know". Manny seems to be pretty beloved by his teammates: Ortiz, Pedro, Millar, some of the guys in Cleveland and they know Manny better than you or I will. A lot of the Manny is an asshole thing is a media meme that keeps getting repeated over and over and over again until it's "truth". Just the other day, Bertran joked about Manny showing up on time to the celebration. There's a lot of things that you can say about Manny, but from everything that I've read, the dude has an unbelievable work ethic -- forget being one of the best right handed hitters ever, the guy wouldn't have made the majors if he was a complete lazy ass.
And that feeds into my overall point, how do we (you or WZ) KNOW that Manny is an asshole? We hear everything second and third-hand through the media. The same media that is chastising the Red Sox fandom for being "fanboys" for celebrating the 2004 World Series. The same media that circles the wagons so that no-talent, lazy asses like Nick Cafardo can write the same bullshit over and over and over again while collect six-figure+ paychecks. Forgive me if I don't take every word of the Boston media as gospel when it comes to athletes, especially minority athletes who won't give them the time.
Even if the Boston media was right and Manny Ramirez was the world's biggest asshole off-the-field, what the hell do I care if he's raking on the field? Please tell me because honestly, what am I supposed to give two shits about. Here's a hypothetical, two years ago people in New England were cheering for Aaron Hernandez but booing John Lackey. Last time I checked, Lackey didn't murder three people. BUT how are we supposed to know who the "good guys" are who the "bad guys" are? The answer is we don't. Ever. We don't really know what goes on an athlete's life any more than you know what really goes on in your neighbor's house. Unlike your neighbor, these guys play for teams we root for, so how do we make the choice? I don't, because I don't know for sure. And I'm not sure how you do.