I think the majority of posters on this site genuinely are both able to listen and are desirous of listening, which really is the top ingredient to valuable message boarding.
But the posters that are so fucking absolutely certain of their position that they have lost any ability to even consider anyone else's point are drowning out everyone else. If your first instinct, when reading someone else's post, is to start thinking immediately, sentence-by-sentence, why what you are reading is wrong, why are you even bothering with message boarding? You're just performing. You would think the fact that there is such vehement disagreement over basic points would lead our most strident posters to have just a little less self-confidence and pause to think for a moment that maybe there's more than one way to look at something. But, fuck, just try listening for a fucking change. You can't do that with your mouth open.
Even if one of us (and it really can only be one) is always right and the rest of us are as stupid as we get treated when we disagree, that's not license to be mean.
If I get banned for backwashing in a thread, so be it. I'm damned near ready to check out of this bullshit anyway, which would suck because I love this BBTL.