Hi.
I've started playing soccer in a league. It's my first time playing soccer, or anything really, in a league with uniforms. I'm 53 years old.
As a kid, I was a sports junkie and a terrible athlete. I played backyard baseball and football year round with neighborhood kids, poorly. My mom was opposed to having her kids play in any kind of organized sports league, although I would have given anything. The closest I came was, my enthusiasm aroused by a game of the NASL's Connecticut Bicentennials in the nearly-deserted Yale Bowl, I asked to play in the town rec soccer league. Mom took me to sign up, but we drove around looking for the sign-up place and she gave up after a minute, saying she couldn't find it. I was sore disappointed.
In the years since I've become a fair-to-middling athlete. I played college intramurals in a variety of things, mostly on the right side of the dividing line between 'competent' and 'liability.' I love cycling and at my most committed I did 30-50 mile rides regularly. I commute to work although that's only 4 miles each way. I ran the NYC Marathon in '99 (slowly). I was a decent rec racquetball and softball player in my gym's leagues. I briefly joined a team of baseball geeks who played "vintage" baseball, ie with 1860's rules and equipment (wool uniforms, hot as fuck, no gloves). Most recently I have coached my daughter's softball team, which has had me fielding, throwing, etc. in practice and warmups 2-3/wk, again at the lower range of the bell curve of "good at this." And this year I was diagnosed with ADHD, which JFC I wish someone had figured out a long time ago. Now that I'm addressing it, I can tell that my being a "bad athlete" as a kid was a combination of no coaching, no attention span, and being Mr Magoo level blind, which no one figured out til I was 11.
Driven partially off my experience coaching my daughter through the ups and downs of learning a sport and learning how to handle failure, and wanting to be a bit of an example, and some life stuff, and wanting to get exercise and have fun, and footy being my sports obsession now, and, NOT AT ALL STILL BITTER about my mom abandoning the effort to sign me up when I was 7, I signed up to play footy in a 6 v 6 co-ed indoor league. It was supposedly a complete beginner's league. Turns out that my teammates are experienced and have played together before. Most are late 20's- early 30's. I was upfront about my lack of experience. They asked if I was cool with playing keeper. I am. We had three games before Xmas. We are 0-3 but lost by only 1-2 goals each time. I've done decently ok, although my teammates don't much trust me with back passes, etc. I've played every minute in goal so far. I get the sense that no one else really wants to do it.
It's on a basketball court with a futsal ball, which is small and quite hard, especially when blasted into your temple from close range. Different game than outdoor- quick, subtle, tricky.
My wife and my daughter especially have been absolutely delighted by me doing this. or Christmas, they got me a set of lessons from the same outfit that sponsors the league. Going to the first one this afternoon. Outdoors. Supposedly for complete novices, basic skills like dribbling, passing, shooting etc. I do like playing keeper so will probably do that going forward but this is not the keeper-only class, it's Footy Skills 101 which I will need in my program of Jorge Campos-like sweeper-keeper rec league dominance.
Anyway - now that the league is starting up again and I'm taking these lessons I'm going to be posting questions and reaching out for help. My teammates in the 6v6 league have been really cool and welcoming and I don't feel completely out of place, but I'd like to "get good fast" as much as possible so that I'm not a complete liability. I know that we have some older rec-league players and keepers here so I'll look forward to your input.
More soon.
I've started playing soccer in a league. It's my first time playing soccer, or anything really, in a league with uniforms. I'm 53 years old.
As a kid, I was a sports junkie and a terrible athlete. I played backyard baseball and football year round with neighborhood kids, poorly. My mom was opposed to having her kids play in any kind of organized sports league, although I would have given anything. The closest I came was, my enthusiasm aroused by a game of the NASL's Connecticut Bicentennials in the nearly-deserted Yale Bowl, I asked to play in the town rec soccer league. Mom took me to sign up, but we drove around looking for the sign-up place and she gave up after a minute, saying she couldn't find it. I was sore disappointed.
In the years since I've become a fair-to-middling athlete. I played college intramurals in a variety of things, mostly on the right side of the dividing line between 'competent' and 'liability.' I love cycling and at my most committed I did 30-50 mile rides regularly. I commute to work although that's only 4 miles each way. I ran the NYC Marathon in '99 (slowly). I was a decent rec racquetball and softball player in my gym's leagues. I briefly joined a team of baseball geeks who played "vintage" baseball, ie with 1860's rules and equipment (wool uniforms, hot as fuck, no gloves). Most recently I have coached my daughter's softball team, which has had me fielding, throwing, etc. in practice and warmups 2-3/wk, again at the lower range of the bell curve of "good at this." And this year I was diagnosed with ADHD, which JFC I wish someone had figured out a long time ago. Now that I'm addressing it, I can tell that my being a "bad athlete" as a kid was a combination of no coaching, no attention span, and being Mr Magoo level blind, which no one figured out til I was 11.
Driven partially off my experience coaching my daughter through the ups and downs of learning a sport and learning how to handle failure, and wanting to be a bit of an example, and some life stuff, and wanting to get exercise and have fun, and footy being my sports obsession now, and, NOT AT ALL STILL BITTER about my mom abandoning the effort to sign me up when I was 7, I signed up to play footy in a 6 v 6 co-ed indoor league. It was supposedly a complete beginner's league. Turns out that my teammates are experienced and have played together before. Most are late 20's- early 30's. I was upfront about my lack of experience. They asked if I was cool with playing keeper. I am. We had three games before Xmas. We are 0-3 but lost by only 1-2 goals each time. I've done decently ok, although my teammates don't much trust me with back passes, etc. I've played every minute in goal so far. I get the sense that no one else really wants to do it.
It's on a basketball court with a futsal ball, which is small and quite hard, especially when blasted into your temple from close range. Different game than outdoor- quick, subtle, tricky.
My wife and my daughter especially have been absolutely delighted by me doing this. or Christmas, they got me a set of lessons from the same outfit that sponsors the league. Going to the first one this afternoon. Outdoors. Supposedly for complete novices, basic skills like dribbling, passing, shooting etc. I do like playing keeper so will probably do that going forward but this is not the keeper-only class, it's Footy Skills 101 which I will need in my program of Jorge Campos-like sweeper-keeper rec league dominance.
Anyway - now that the league is starting up again and I'm taking these lessons I'm going to be posting questions and reaching out for help. My teammates in the 6v6 league have been really cool and welcoming and I don't feel completely out of place, but I'd like to "get good fast" as much as possible so that I'm not a complete liability. I know that we have some older rec-league players and keepers here so I'll look forward to your input.
More soon.