It's gendered only because it's women who are swinging the election to Clinton. Adams' second point is that everything that goes wrong will be the fault of women (the ones turning the election). Adams is saying, essentially, "congratulations, you've won. You've got the power. But now everything that happens is on you." Sort of a modern day Pontius Pilate washing his hands before Clinton supporters and saying that the blood will be on their hands.
Of course, that's simply wrong. Partisans tend to overstate the importance of the presidency, because they internalize the popularity contest. They are more interested in being popular, liked, respected, and on the winning tribe than they are in using the relatively modest power of the presidency to achieve concrete policy goals. But I don't see how that is being deplorable.
I think you'd be on stronger ground making the case for Adams being deplorable if you stuck with his comments about the octopus.