It’s clearly affected Day, to the point where the entire organization locks up when it sees Michigan across the field. When you hear Day compare losing to Michigan to the death of his father, you almost feel sorry for him. That’s no way to live, man. It’s just a football game.
Now, what Day and his family have experienced the last few years is real. If you talk to folks around the Ohio State program, you’ll hear about threats and random people approaching his wife in public just to say impolite things.
That’s not good either. It’s the symptom of a sick society that takes football way too seriously.
It seems, though, that Day’s reaction to the environment he lives in is to double, triple and quadruple down on showing Ohio State’s fan base how much he cares about beating Michigan. It’s all the "That Team Up North" stuff. It’s the countdown clocks in the Woody Hayes center reminding everyone how many days until they play Michigan again. It’s Day raising the stakes to impossible levels when he calls losing to Michigan one of the worst things that has ever happened to him.
Day doesn’t have to say that stuff. He chooses to because he thinks it connects him — a guy who grew up in New Hampshire and didn’t step foot in Columbus until 2017 — to a fan base that has always looked at him a bit skeptically.
But at the end of the day, none of that stuff matters. It’s just fluff. The substance is what happens on the field, and for four straight years Ohio State has not performed anywhere close to its capabilities on the day it spends the previous 364 preparing for.
Which brings us to what happened in the aftermath of Saturday's loss, when
a melee broke out over Michigan players trying to plant a flag at the 50-yard line of Ohio Stadium.
“I don’t know all the details of it, but I know that these guys are looking to put a flag on the field and our guys weren’t going to let that happen,” Day said. “I’ll find out exactly what happened but this is our field. And certainly we’re embarrassed at the fact we lost the game, but there are some prideful guys on the field that weren’t going to let that happen.”
Sorry Ryan, but no. That’s fake pride. That’s the kind of pride you buy at the Dollar Store and hang on your Christmas tree for a few weeks before you put it back in the attic. It’s an ornament. It means nothing.
But it speaks to everything wrong with Day’s version of Ohio State. When it comes to Michigan, it’s little more than 365 days of performative nonsense leading up to the moment every year that they’ve blown up so big in their mind that they can’t play with the confidence and reckless abandon necessary to win a game like that.
Day has won 87 percent of his games, but it’s telling that his best coaching job came in an epic College Football Playoff semifinal loss to Georgia, 42-41, in 2022. That game happened a month after Ohio State got torn apart by Michigan, 45-23, and backed into the CFP after Southern Cal lost the Pac-12 title game. Nobody thought Ohio State had a chance against Georgia, but the Buckeyes played so brilliantly they came within a hair of likely winning a national championship. That can’t be a coincidence.
As long as Day’s the coach at Ohio State — which may not be much longer — it’s hard to have any confidence in the Buckeyes’ ability to win when the pressure is as high as it seems to be every year against Michigan. It was once unfathomable that Ohio State seniors could leave college without ever beating the Wolverines, but now it’s reality for some of them. So after four straight losses, the Buckeyes are No. 1 in the 2024 season’s final Misery Index, a weekly measurement of which fan bases are feeling the most angst.