There's honestly not a lot of difference in many cases between the top handful of draft picks. Generational talented QB's are rare, and often don't go #1 or #2. Just looking at 2023, the top 10 QB's by total yards thrown went 5, 1, 135, 7, 262, 10, 26, 2, 1, 1. And none of Goff, Baker, or Lawrence (the 3 #1's) have won a Super Bowl, and only of them has even appeared in one.
The problem with drafting Zach Wilson at #2 is not the fact that the Jets missed out on Trevor Lawrence. It's that they also missed out on picking Micah Parsons, Amon-Ra St Brown, Ja'Marr Chase, or Patrick Surtain (among many others) that would have really helped them.