I just got a new computer to replace our dinosaur iMac. That computer was running iTunes and High Sierra. I'm hating the new experience so far.
The new computer uses Apple Music (replacing iTunes) and the Catalina OS.
My wife and I, let's just say, don't have the same taste in music. I want to keep our libraries separate.
Apple says there is a way to do this by holding the option key while opening the Music app. And it worked fine (after some difficulty) for importing our music libraries, which I copied onto a external hard drive and moved to the new computer.
The problem is when switching between our two libraries. Apple says it's easy. Just hold down the option button and press the "Choose Library" button. Except that button doesn't work. I can't click on either one of our music folders.
I must be missing something really simple here, but I can't do it for the life of me. And this has resulted in her peanut butter getting in my chocolate, except much less delicious. And I've had to re-import my library now more than once, which is getting old.
One other piece of relevant information -- I want my music on my phone, not in the cloud.
Can anyone show me what I'm doing wrong? Here's a picture showing that I can't choose the Jeff folder.

The new computer uses Apple Music (replacing iTunes) and the Catalina OS.
My wife and I, let's just say, don't have the same taste in music. I want to keep our libraries separate.
Apple says there is a way to do this by holding the option key while opening the Music app. And it worked fine (after some difficulty) for importing our music libraries, which I copied onto a external hard drive and moved to the new computer.
The problem is when switching between our two libraries. Apple says it's easy. Just hold down the option button and press the "Choose Library" button. Except that button doesn't work. I can't click on either one of our music folders.
I must be missing something really simple here, but I can't do it for the life of me. And this has resulted in her peanut butter getting in my chocolate, except much less delicious. And I've had to re-import my library now more than once, which is getting old.
One other piece of relevant information -- I want my music on my phone, not in the cloud.
Can anyone show me what I'm doing wrong? Here's a picture showing that I can't choose the Jeff folder.
