Kobe Killed in Helicopter Crash

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I don’t know what the formula is. The Cosby rumors had been around forever, and everyone was okay with it till they weren’t.

If Kobe or Big Ben had been charged with rape this year, maybe things play out differently. I doubt it though. Maybe if it was a lesser player or someone on a lesser team.

Still, it’s worth thinking and talking about why Kobe was allowed back in the league. Why he has been embraced and celebrated by so many people since the accusation. And why people on the news - and here - are so loathe to bring it up.

What does that say about society? What does that say to rape survivors? What does that say to impressionable kids about the importance of consent?
RIP to kobe Wife and 3 daughters

they were rumors about cosby doing what he did in the mid-80's pm me for info as someone who was almost a broadcaster my chronic fatigue and stuttering was the reason I did not get in to announcing plus knowing what I know now over time I wouild had said nice dress or nice low fitting blouse and got fried in today worid
 

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Kobe was a great NBA player - not sure I quite understand the god tier level of adoration being ascribed to him - but maybe that’s because I’m a Celtics fan? The real sadness for me is his daughter, wife and kids left behind.

Also, he beneifited greatly (just like Mike Tyson) from his rape allegation and lawsuit being in a different time than today - he would never have a place in modern NBA if that had happened today so its all a little weird to me.
 

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I have always despised Kobe. For being a rapist, for his arrogance, for being a general douchebag.

I will say though, his death has affected me. There is of course the normal component to a celebrity dying where we all think about are own lives, the “soundtrack” type of thing that we feel with celebrities we have seen and thought about in our lives so much for so long.

It has mostly affected me because of his daughter. Seeing the many pictures of him with Gianna — and the look she has in her eyes when she is looking at him, and the smile on her face with him. That cuts deep. When I think about a 13 year old girl who idolizes her Dad being lost, and 3 other girls being left behind it is devastating, particularly having two daughters myself.

I could care less about Kobe being gone, but his death has hit me pretty hard and I understand why people are reacting the way they are.

Also, this thread is a shitshow and SoSH should be better.
I've been considering posting on this thread today, but I'm just going to quote this because it pretty much sums up my feelings perfectly.
 

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RIP to kobe Wife and 3 daughters

they were rumors about cosby doing what he did in the mid-80's pm me for info as someone who was almost a broadcaster my chronic fatigue and stuttering was the reason I did not get in to announcing plus knowing what I know now over time I wouild had said nice dress or nice low fitting blouse and got fried in today worid
Hey brother, always nice hearing from you.

Are you saying you have info about Cosby or would like me to send you what I’d heard? I don’t have anything in particular, but it was out there. That was part of Hannibal’s original joke. Same thing with Michael Jackson or R Kelly.

And, you’re a smart and considerate guy. I’m sure you would’ve evolved with the times and not said anything inappropriate.
 

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I was watching the Grammy red carpet feed and wondered how many survivors of abuse or rape had to speak glowingly of Kobe to the cameras.
My wife and I watched it too and discussed the same thing. That everyone right now feels obligated to respond the same way for fear of being shamed. Evan Rachel Wood for example dared to tweet out a reminder of Bryant's raping of a 19-year old and she was met with a barrage of hate. She has since deleted the tweet.
 

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I have always despised Kobe. For being a rapist, for his arrogance, for being a general douchebag.

I will say though, his death has affected me. There is of course the normal component to a celebrity dying where we all think about are own lives, the “soundtrack” type of thing that we feel with celebrities we have seen and thought about in our lives so much for so long.

It has mostly affected me because of his daughter. Seeing the many pictures of him with Gianna — and the look she has in her eyes when she is looking at him, and the smile on her face with him. That cuts deep. When I think about a 13 year old girl who idolizes her Dad being lost, and 3 other girls being left behind it is devastating, particularly having two daughters myself.

I could care less about Kobe being gone, but his death has hit me pretty hard and I understand why people are reacting the way they are.

Also, this thread is a shitshow and SoSH should be better.
My reaction is pretty similar.
I've been considering posting on this thread today, but I'm just going to quote this because it pretty much sums up my feelings perfectly.
Let's not forget it was someone's barely-adult daughter he raped.
 

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Let's not forget it was someone's barely-adult daughter he raped.
I can personally say I’m not forgetting. I said earlier in the thread this hits close to home for me because I shared the commonality with my daughter that Kobe and his daughter did. It’s very sad that they both lost their lives traveling so Gigi could play a basketball game as did all the others aboard.

That said, we all have our own feelings on this. No one is right or wrong IMO. The personal attacks over differing opinions in this thread are ridiculous.
 

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Kobe was a great NBA player - not sure I quite understand the god tier level of adoration being ascribed to him - but maybe that’s because I’m a Celtics fan? The real sadness for me is his daughter, wife and kids left behind.

Also, he beneifited greatly (just like Mike Tyson) from his rape allegation and lawsuit being in a different time than today - he would never have a place in modern NBA if that had happened today so its all a little weird to me.
He also benefited from the point in his career in which the rape took place. If this happened near end of his playing days or after it badly tarnishes the luster of a storied career and possibly ruins him. Kobe played an additional 13 seasons after 2003. There were 13 years of idol building after the rape. Unfortunately that is the Kobe we see being celebrated.
 
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From a text sent to me from a friend. “We are following media reports the Kobe Bryant was among those killed in a crash of an S-76 helicopter near Calabasas, CA this morning. Initial data indicate N72EX is the aircraft involved. Data for N72EX is available at https://www.flightradar24.com/data/aircraft/n72ex#23a8271e

FwIw, this is the aircraft.
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There was a post earlier of the audio between the helicopter and the airport. Looking at the path, and listening the audio, it sounds like they had to delay his flight in the air about 15 minutes to allow for some other aircraft in the area, which I think are the circles you see over Glendale. Would be sad to think those extra 15 minutes in the air may have been the difference between them all getting where they were going and not...
 

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Hey brother, always nice hearing from you.

Are you saying you have info about Cosby or would like me to send you what I’d heard? I don’t have anything in particular, but it was out there. That was part of Hannibal’s original joke. Same thing with Michael Jackson or R Kelly.

And, you’re a smart and considerate guy. I’m sure you would’ve evolved with the times and not said anything inappropriate.
nice to hear from u too no I have info on cosby about how it was known by insiders in the late 80's cosby were doing that

I like to think I wouild but I am gullible at times and around 2009-2010 if I was on the road and a night of partying happened and she made the first move I wouild had went for it

because when I was a kid all I cared about was sports and fishing school and I did not have a social life by my choice back then I was in my own world girls liked me back then but I was too into my world to see it

when I left high school I was plob 12 or 13 in a social sense I am my hardest criric I am just now learning to lighten up more part of it is I am stubborn
 

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Kobe was a great NBA player - not sure I quite understand the god tier level of adoration being ascribed to him - but maybe that’s because I’m a Celtics fan?

Also, he beneifited greatly (just like Mike Tyson) from his rape allegation and lawsuit being in a different time than today - he would never have a place in modern NBA if that had happened today so its all a little weird to me.
He was arguably the face of the league until LeBron went to Miami. Also, LA basketball was in a real sorry state of affairs in the post-Showtime era. He and Shaq will be gods forever there.

The NBA has the smallest rosters by far of any league—a ton of these guys are extremely close whether or not they played together on the same teams. Between offseason workouts, all star weekends, and Olympic ball, Kobe worked with a ton of guys over the years, even after he was done playing.

Basketball players are also by far the most visible professional athletes. No pads, no helmets, etc. I think the NBA is just a different animal than the other leagues. Half the guys in the league right now, maybe more, grew up wanting to be Kobe. And a ton of the TV work now is done by guys who idolized him even while on the same court going against him.

Fully agree with your last point. I think his case began to open some eyes as to how much wrong we do to victims but then it was over and that was that. I mean, I’m sure a lot of us remember everyone laughing it up after his press conference with his wife with “looks like someone’s in the doghouse!!” type shit. A lot of vile stuff in our collective past. I’m sad today but don’t begrudge anyone for feeling otherwise.
 

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There was a post earlier of the audio between the helicopter and the airport. Looking at the path, and listening the audio, it sounds like they had to delay his flight in the air about 15 minutes to allow for some other aircraft in the area, which I think are the circles you see over Glendale. Would be sad to think those extra 15 minutes in the air may have been the difference between them all getting where they were going and not...
That helps, thanks! I couldn’t figure out the circles over Glendale. At the end there was a sudden drop in altitude corresponding to a sudden increase in speed. To me it doesn’t appear like the pilot got disoriented and flew into terrain so something mechanical? Was there a mayday? I’m not a NTSB investigator so take anything I say as a Wag.
 

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Let's remember that he never owned up to what he did and he never apologized. I am so sick of hearing how doing charity as a rich celebrity can buy your way out of doing something horrid (e.g. raping a 19-year old) especially when you never have acknowledged it or apologized for it. He has never been contrite and has not sought our forgiveness. He had his chances. Now, he's dead.

EDIT: He also intimidated and bullied and shamed her after he raped her.
 

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That helps, thanks! I couldn’t figure out the circles over Glendale. At the end there was a sudden drop in altitude corresponding to a sudden increase in speed. To me it doesn’t appear like the pilot got disoriented and flew into terrain so something mechanical? Was there a mayday? I’m not a NTSB investigator so take anything I say as a Wag.
No mayday that I heard, just a lot of back and forth about the route they would take into Van Nuys along a couple different highways, and all seemed fine, and then the communication went dead and then radar cut out entirely.
 

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Literally the first thing that crossed my mind when this flashed across my phone was, "Known rapist dies in helicopter crash." Clearly, I'm not alone in that.

I think it's totally fucked that some people want to whitewash that away just because he died in some bizarre fashion at a young age. People die every day.

Rape is part of his legacy. He has to own that, whether you like it or not.
This is so well said and exactly what I thought when I heard the news.

I never felt positively towards Kobe the human so this was not a Tom Petty/Reggie Lewis moment for me. He was a great guy to root against and that's about it.

And while I don't wish "attack by a rabid dog" on almost anyone, I have borne witness to the impact of rape on multiple female friends so my perception of guys like Kobe, who at worst raped someone and at best took advantage of someone due to his celebrity status, is not that they are great humans. And the folks pulling the "think about his family! the body is not even cold!" act need to get over themselves. It's an internet message board, not the front page of the LA Times.
 

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Let's remember that he never owned up to what he did and he never apologized. I am so sick of hearing how doing charity as a rich celebrity can buy your way out of doing something horrid (e.g. raping a 19-year old) especially when you never have acknowledged it or apologized for it. He has never been contrite and has not sought our forgiveness. He had his chances. Now, he's dead.

EDIT: He also intimidated and bullied and shamed her after he raped her.
Not exactly true, with respect to the apology. He made one, through his attorney at the end of the criminal case. It's been posted in parts in this thread, but here's the complete version:

"The woman had filed a separate civil suit against Bryant, and had agreed to dismissal of the sexual assault charge against him provided the athlete issue the following apology to his accuser, which was read in court by Bryant’s attorney:

First, I want to apologize directly to the young woman involved in this incident. I want to apologize to her for my behavior that night and for the consequences she has suffered in the past year. Although this year has been incredibly difficult for me personally, I can only imagine the pain she has had to endure. I also want to apologize to her parents and family members, and to my family and friends and supporters, and to the citizensof Eagle, Colo.I also want to make it clear that I do not question the motives of this young woman. No money has been paid to this woman. She has agreed that this statement will not be used against me in the civil case. Although I truly believe this encounter between us was consensual, I recognize now that she did not and does not view this incident the same way I did. After months of reviewing discovery, listening to her attorney, and even her testimony in person, I now understand how she feels that she did not consent to this encounter.I issue this statement today fully aware that while one part of this case ends today, another remains. I understand that the civil case against me will go forward. That part of this case will be decided by and between the parties directly involved in the incident and will no longer be a financial or emotional drain on the citizens of the state of Colorado. "
 

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Hey brother, always nice hearing from you.

Are you saying you have info about Cosby or would like me to send you what I’d heard? I don’t have anything in particular, but it was out there. That was part of Hannibal’s original joke. Same thing with Michael Jackson or R Kelly.

And, you’re a smart and considerate guy. I’m sure you would’ve evolved with the times and not said anything inappropriate.
Yeah, I heard about it here a while before Hannibal's clip went viral and the linked article blew my mind. Bill Maher was on Rogan a couple weeks ago and says the rumors were out there in comedy circles in the mid(?) 80s. LIke women saying you want to stay away from him.
 

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Friend who is a pilot just listened to the air traffic control interactions and said this sounds like 100 pct pilot error. He said the pilot clearly did not know how to fly in instrument conditions and was trying to be a cowboy. “It’s a debacle.”
 

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That helps, thanks! I couldn’t figure out the circles over Glendale. At the end there was a sudden drop in altitude corresponding to a sudden increase in speed. To me it doesn’t appear like the pilot got disoriented and flew into terrain so something mechanical? Was there a mayday? I’m not a NTSB investigator so take anything I say as a Wag.
Do helicopters have the proverbial black boxes?
 

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Let's remember that he never owned up to what he did and he never apologized. I am so sick of hearing how doing charity as a rich celebrity can buy your way out of doing something horrid (e.g. raping a 19-year old) especially when you never have acknowledged it or apologized for it. He has never been contrite and has not sought our forgiveness. He had his chances. Now, he's dead.

EDIT: He also intimidated and bullied and shamed her after he raped her.
I mostly agree except I don't care that he didn't ask for our forgiveness. When it comes to forgiveness in this matter, there are just a couple of people who have the right to authorize that.
 

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I just feel for everybody this has an impact on. Say what you will about Kobe the person, but he affected so many people, and it's tough to see how much it's hurting them.

And his family....ugh.
 

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Friend who is a pilot just listened to the air traffic control interactions and said this sounds like 100 pct pilot error. He said the pilot clearly did not know how to fly in instrument conditions and was trying to be a cowboy. “It’s a debacle.”
Curious to know what “trying to be a cowboy” means in helicopter pilot speak
 

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Curious to know what “trying to be a cowboy” means in helicopter pilot speak
My friend referenced trying to follow the highways and said, “all this could have been avoided and they could have just landed somewhere else.”

So I think the cowboy comment was related to the fact that the guy was in over his head and soldiered on instead of maybe turning to another potential place to land.
 

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Yeah, I heard about it here a while before Hannibal's clip went viral and the linked article blew my mind. Bill Maher was on Rogan a couple weeks ago and says the rumors were out there in comedy circles in the mid(?) 80s. LIke women saying you want to stay away from him.
It’s been that way for everyone who has been exposed the past few years - Louis, MJ, R Kelly, Weinstein, Epstein, Spacey, Singer, Ratner.

Like who was the last person accused of serial harassment or rape where everyone was shocked?
 

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Friend who is a pilot just listened to the air traffic control interactions and said this sounds like 100 pct pilot error. He said the pilot clearly did not know how to fly in instrument conditions and was trying to be a cowboy. “It’s a debacle.”
could it be that the pilot was inexperienced with foggy conditions, being LA and all?

is that what you meant by "instrument conditions"?

EDIT: Yep, that's what that meant. I was slow on the uptake there. I did think about the fog before
 

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My friend referenced trying to follow the highways and said, “all this could have been avoided and they could have just landed somewhere else.”

So I think the cowboy comment was related to the fact that the guy was in over his head and soldiered on instead of maybe turning to another potential place to land.
Ah, thanks. Appreciate your friend’s insight.
 

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could it be that the pilot was inexperienced with foggy conditions, being LA and all?

is that what you meant by "instrument conditions"?

EDIT: Yep, that's what that meant. I was slow on the uptake there. I did think about the fog before
I read that as "inclement conditions" autocorrect. So maybe.
 

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I mostly agree except I don't care that he didn't ask for our forgiveness. When it comes to forgiveness in this matter, there are just a couple of people who have the right to authorize that.
Fair enough, yes.
 

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could it be that the pilot was inexperienced with foggy conditions, being LA and all?

is that what you meant by "instrument conditions"?

EDIT: Yep, that's what that meant. I was slow on the uptake there. I did think about the fog before
According to FlightAware, the weather for John Wayne was MVFR (marginal visual flight conditions) for most of the day. So not a good day to fly if you are not instrument rated.

https://flightaware.com/resources/airport/KSNA/weather
 

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Not exactly true, with respect to the apology. He made one, through his attorney at the end of the criminal case. It's been posted in parts in this thread, but here's the complete version:

"The woman had filed a separate civil suit against Bryant, and had agreed to dismissal of the sexual assault charge against him provided the athlete issue the following apology to his accuser, which was read in court by Bryant’s attorney:

First, I want to apologize directly to the young woman involved in this incident. I want to apologize to her for my behavior that night and for the consequences she has suffered in the past year. Although this year has been incredibly difficult for me personally, I can only imagine the pain she has had to endure. I also want to apologize to her parents and family members, and to my family and friends and supporters, and to the citizensof Eagle, Colo.I also want to make it clear that I do not question the motives of this young woman. No money has been paid to this woman. She has agreed that this statement will not be used against me in the civil case. Although I truly believe this encounter between us was consensual, I recognize now that she did not and does not view this incident the same way I did. After months of reviewing discovery, listening to her attorney, and even her testimony in person, I now understand how she feels that she did not consent to this encounter.I issue this statement today fully aware that while one part of this case ends today, another remains. I understand that the civil case against me will go forward. That part of this case will be decided by and between the parties directly involved in the incident and will no longer be a financial or emotional drain on the citizens of the state of Colorado. "



My understanding is that this was an attorney-issued apology as part of an agreement for her to not cooperate with the prosecutors in his criminal trial after Bryant had leaked her name in order to intimidate her. Yeah, so, not really an apology. Or, charitably, about as qualified as an apology as one can find.

EDIT: Context matters.
 

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There are important conversations about sexual assault and race in America to be had concerning Kobe Bryant and what now is a legacy. I will wait until there is another, non reaction thread to discuss those.

I really only liked basketball when Kobe Bryant played. I’m one of those Laker fans who is really a Kobe fan first, but I don’t really bring that up around here. I’m emotional and incredibly sad, and as with all of my tremendous admiration for Kobe Bryant, part of me feels bad for that based on what he did in Eagle, CO in 2004.. I fucking loved him as a competitor and athlete and was genuinely inspired by the second act he seemed to be creating for his life. I was more impressed by his Oscar than by his titles and that video of him and Gianna taking basketball at a Lakers game made me cry this morning.

That helps, thanks! I couldn’t figure out the circles over Glendale. At the end there was a sudden drop in altitude corresponding to a sudden increase in speed. To me it doesn’t appear like the pilot got disoriented and flew into terrain so something mechanical? Was there a mayday? I’m not a NTSB investigator so take anything I say as a Wag.
it’s all a WAG at this point, we don’t know shit yet.

Friend who is a pilot just listened to the air traffic control interactions and said this sounds like 100 pct pilot error. He said the pilot clearly did not know how to fly in instrument conditions and was trying to be a cowboy. “It’s a debacle.”
tell your friend to fuck off for me. His speculation doesn’t help. I say that as a military helicopter pilot with (EDIt: insert resume details here, I don’t want to be a douche). He doesn’t know what happened in that aircraft yet because no one does and his cavalier language is insulting to a fellow pilot who might have done an outstanding job and still died for all we know. Some emergencies just aren’t survivable, some great pilots get themselves and their pax killed being stupid. Often the answer is in between. But only a jackass speculates with incomplete information at this point.

Curious to know what “trying to be a cowboy” means in helicopter pilot speak
Helicopter pilots get cavalier with the weather, especially around terrain in a manner that would terrify most fixed wing pilots. I say that now flying fixed wing aircraft for a major airline. Controlled Flight Into Terrain (CFIT) is a common helicopter killer and it is a fairly linear risk across the range of pilot experience and quality of equipment.
 
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He was arguably the face of the league until LeBron went to Miami. Also, LA basketball was in a real sorry state of affairs in the post-Showtime era. He and Shaq will be gods forever there.

The NBA has the smallest rosters by far of any league—a ton of these guys are extremely close whether or not they played together on the same teams. Between offseason workouts, all star weekends, and Olympic ball, Kobe worked with a ton of guys over the years, even after he was done playing.

Basketball players are also by far the most visible professional athletes. No pads, no helmets, etc. I think the NBA is just a different animal than the other leagues. Half the guys in the league right now, maybe more, grew up wanting to be Kobe. And a ton of the TV work now is done by guys who idolized him even while on the same court going against him.

Fully agree with your last point. I think his case began to open some eyes as to how much wrong we do to victims but then it was over and that was that. I mean, I’m sure a lot of us remember everyone laughing it up after his press conference with his wife with “looks like someone’s in the doghouse!!” type shit. A lot of vile stuff in our collective past. I’m sad today but don’t begrudge anyone for feeling otherwise.
Putting everything else aside for a moment, I just wanted to highlight how great of a post this is. It cannot be understated how much Kobe meant to the NBA. He was 100% the face of the league post MJ and pre LeBron in Miami. He was the guy the current generation of players looked up to. He mentored and worked with a lot of guys post retirement. Gordon Hayward, Kemba Walker, Jaylen Brown, and Marcus Smart all with quotes after the game today about how Kobe meant something to them one way or the other. Brad Stevens was emotional pre-game talking about how Kobe transitioned from a player to a dad and a coach. He meant A LOT to A LOT of players in this league.

Kobe was the perfect villain. I hated him. But as a Celtics fan and a basketball fan, you had to respect the intensity at which he played the game. And as a Celtics fan and a basketball fan, I’m sad tonight.