You literally called me and a few others out. Sorry, I don’t agree with your conclusion here and clearly others don’t as well based on the responses that have come in.I’m not offended. I do think we can and need to be better as a community and that doesn’t happen unless attention is called to conduct we have historically treated as acceptable and shouldn’t. I’m also not blaming you or calling out individuals (although this response indicates maybe I should have). I get it. I’ve told or laughed at plenty of jokes in my life that I shouldn’t have considered funny and have since learned should never have been something I perceived to be an acceptable source of humor, this topic included.
SoSH has dealt with similar issues in other contexts, generally successfully, after a prolonged stretch of backlash by people who refuse to accept that things they’ve always done are things they never should have done and that doesn’t make them a bad person—although a refusal to engage in appropriate retrospection once the issue is brought to your attention is more troubling.
It literally shouldn’t matter if people think this is funny either. Because there’s a ton of evidence that body image shaming and body image focused humor does tremendous harm to many many people. That doesn’t get better unless we work to be better and to stop doing the thing that is harmful. We need to do that.
Just because you think something is “harmful” doesn’t make it so. There is a clear sports-specific context here.
You need to stop playing mod and let the real mods do their job. They actively monitor this board and if they think comments cross the line, they address it.
Go ahead and pass more judgment on posters through. It’s a real good look for you.