berezina, on Jun 14 2008, 06:07 AM, said:
This was Sutcliffe's last broadcast before leaving for cancer treatment. His remarks came immediately after O'Brien mentioned this and seemed like an attempt to make light of the topic, inspired by O'Brien's previous mention of the dress. Let's have a little compassion, please. He should apologize, and that should be it. It's difficult to speak extemporaneously for hours, especially when under personal stress and with the mandate to be entertaining and funny. I despise the inclination to harp endlessly on gaffes. It creates politicians like John Kerry, who is so afraid to say the wrong thing that he's lost the ability to convey any emotion at all.
A few further points:
1) Almost no man understands exactly how demeaning it feels for a woman to have sexual remarks made about her in a professional context -- as though, after all her work, and her desire for acceptance as a colleague, she'll never be more than an object to them. We should learn.
2) Why was Andrews wearing a short yellow dress instead of a suit? The 800 lb. gorilla of sexism is the hiring of sideline reporters as eye candy. I reserve most of my sympathy for the less-attractive reporters who lose gigs to her. I'm a dour feminist, not a do-me feminist. Most of the blame goes to the executives who hire her -- or, really, the audience. Perhaps SoSH could start an email campaign to hire a qualified analyst next time there's an opening for a sideline reporter.
3) As a factual matter, she probably was a distraction. Guys are like that. It's instinctive, not willed, and it's not going to change. Any reasonable critique needs to focus on tact, empathy, respect, and self-editing, not the classification of lust as a thought-crime. Your heterosexual male coworkers think about copulating with you every time they see you. Give props to the ones who can avoid ever-ever-ever mentioning it.
First I want to say that for a first post around here, this one ranks way up there. Well done. I'd like to hear you expound a bit however as I find the over-empathize references interesting (among others of your comments).
Within comments one and three, you seem to accept that it is a biological given men will always "...think about copulating," yet the boundary is any mention in "professional context." Are you suggesting there is a context in which mention is ok?
Could you explain what you mean by "dour feminist" and how that differs from "do-me?"
Where does Erin Andrews' culpability play in here?
Serious questions.